The non-negotiable married life

A number of questions about:

Why your partner loves cause so much suffering?

In my experience I have observed that one of the major problems in this regard refers to people: give in and allow a series of behaviors that go beyond the limits of personal value.

Therefore, there are several aspects that can not be traded on life as a couple:

- Respect: nothing justifies the lack of consideration against a person you love. And that means that I am not willing that there are such disrespect me. At the same time, then I can not and do not want to miss those boundaries and I drive like I want to be treated.

- The mockery: you can not establish a relationship with someone that far from being in company with me, mocks, criticizes me, I hurt and can not keep up in my life. The joke at the bottom hides a profound contempt for the couple.

- Self-love: at the moment I'm more involved with my partner love more than my own person creates an imbalance in couples. When the self takes the place of love for the partner, we are talking about relationships that are filled with pain, suffering and submission.

- The value of the self: no one partner can not make us feel brave we ourselves are not willing to assess our ability, our virtues, our loves and also to our mistakes. Acceptance of the person I am is one of the great pillars of self esteem and you can not negotiate under any circumstances.

- Integrity: physical and psychological can not transfer it because I feel that my impotence or because my love is so great, then I am able to tolerate abuse, harassment, insults, beatings, threats. Integrity is one of the most important for preserving life, not just the couple, but in general.

By the time couples have pushed the boundaries of such aspects, certainly are in destructive relationships, conflicting and filled with pain and betrayal.

You probably feel confused without the possibility of leaving the circle. Once the pain and violence have been established in a couple, it is difficult to get out without help from a professional.

If for any reason you are experiencing this type of relationship the most important thing is to look for help, guidance and do not continue in a deterioration of your emotional life.

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